How to make a decision
It is important for all of us to make the right decisions regarding our future in our lives.Therefore, it is very critical to recognizing what we want to do and how to achieve those goals in order to live our lives without regret.What Kind of work do you want for your future? What kind of car should you buy? Should we ask him (her) if they are willing to marry you? Are you ready to have another child? Is this house exactly what you want or should you continue looking for a better match? There are many things really difficult to choose, the more important things for you, choose the more and more, it is difficult to make a choice in our life.
Newton chose to investigate the source of the force which drew an apple to the ground, in doing so he discovered the laws of gravity; Napoleon chose to fight a long a costly war and his tirele efforts enabled him to conquered half the world, precisely because they recognize their goals and made the right choice, so they write a perfect music for their life.Life is about choosing and choosing, perhaps we are satisfied with our choice, because time has proven that it is right one, maybe we are remorseful for our own choices, because the result is not what we expected, but no matter we chose the outcome, we have to face and accept it.
When such things come to us, our thinking will be divided into two equal parts.When there are two options, the two parts will react very quickly, especially when one of those options is better than the other.Standing still, waiting to be slowly raising water drowned, or jump to the big rock, to a safe place? That is very easy to choose.When there are more choices, we do not know which one to pick or how to go about1
making the right choice.Skip to the rocks, or climb the tree? We are not sure which choice is better; research has found that people will not make a choice when there are many equally good choices.
Many people around the world sayyou cannot choose , they think there is no exist any individual freedom.They think that decided the behavior of people only opportunity.This statement is more extreme.International famed psychiatrist Frank was thrown into a German concentration camp during the second world war, He studied their ideas, and also talk with other people.Later, he concluded: \"there is only one thing that is inalienable and that is the force of human freedom, in any case, the freedom to choose their own attitude to choose their own unique behavior means freedom.\"
Therefore, we see that you have a choice, we can choose.For example ,about my experience, I quited my job of five years in order to be able to travel to America to to continue my education ,some people said that it would not be worth it because I was leaving behind a good job, my friends and all my family.Before that, on the other hand, some people think do what you want to do , because you are not child , you can choose your career, yes that’s true.
I choose to continue my studies and fullfill my dreams of higher education even though it meant I was leaving my family and my friends, everything is the beinging.Most people don\'t want to make hard chooses in their life, because once we make that choice, we must aume responsibility for it.However, in order to seek life succe, we must make our own choice, every day, every hour, every minutes.
Many people don’t realize that when they go into a shoe shop, they can buy a pair of black shoes, and also can buy a pair of brown; When they got into a clothing store, they can buy a piece of light color coat or another one with something dark in it.In other words, a person\'s greatest strength is mastering art of making hard the choices.
Thepower of choice is enormous, even you can choose your own destiny.There is a English proverb: \"the fate of the architects - and that\'s you!\" Many philosophers once said, man is the master of his own fate, but most of them are not pointed out the truly reason of human beings can independent fate.In fact, people have master\'s status, especially economic master position, they can rein in environment, independent succe or failure, that is because they can use subconscious strength, especially auto-suggestion this tool.
In James Allen’s book called “As a man thinketh” he wrote: Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself; he also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace.By the right choice and true application of thought, man ascends to the Divine Perfection; by the abuse and wrong application of thought, he descends below the level of the beast.Between these two extremes are all the grades of character, and man is their maker and master.Of all the beautiful truths pertaining to the soul which have been restored and brought to light in this age, none is more gladdening or fruitful of divine promise and confidence than this--that man is the master of thought, the molder of character, and the maker and shaper of condition,3
environment, and destiny.
As a being of Power, Intelligence, and love, and the lord of his own thoughts, man holds the key to every situation, and contains within him that transforming and regenerative agency by which he may make himself what he wills.Therefor, we must choose happine, health, safety , and wealth.There are lots of facts in our life tell us that succe is a choice, not only by the chance to get results.
